Re: The Man’s experience in Rishta Hunting
Well, I do agree with each to their own.
However, one has to look at the end result too.
With this living on own term a lot of disrespect, heartache, depression, frustration also has to be accepted from society. I am talking about all societies.
Working and living single for women …
…and waking up early, driving to get to work, listening to the boss, dealing with co-workers, not being able to find someone SINCERE to share the day to day problems etc. etc. etc.
Single people do not really get invited to couple’s gatherings…or singles feel awkward going to couple’s activities…
All of it at what expense? No one to be there when old, weak or sick? Not being able to see kids grow.
People who live alone (regardless they have relationship or not) become ‘mental case’ too… I have witnessed this many times.
Maybe. It depends in which society people are living. But even clear announcement of not wanting to marry can be perceived that the person may be a closet homo. Especially if there are other signs of it.
I guess people who know they cannot procreate, perform or have some physical or mental problem that they may not be able to handle marriage, are justified not being married.
(I know a guy who knew he could not have children, his family did not tell girl’s family and got him married to this poor girl out of social reason)
And these are the people I am not talking about should get married early.