The looser

[diamond321]

Re: The looser

@tipusulatn

First of all Pakistan legal system always support women for child custody matter, there is no other option for him.

Another thing, I was extensively involved in effort to save marriage, on base of what I realized I hate both.

She was abusive, used to assault him from start, also admitted having affair during marriage. She also confessed to making his life difficult in order to force him to divorce her.

I even told her if this is what she want then let her elders involve we reach some solution, but she told me that they would not support her on this. Thus want to make sure he would take blame.

On his side he also have an affair with other girl but always denied to us, we feels betrayed and used by him.

I am not sure what made them to have affair, either because she was so abusive that other girl was his staff at that time not so beautiful but a soft spoken person managed to win his heart.

On other side it is quite possible that, because of his affair Croce her to reconnect with her old flame.

Only god know the truth, but there is no angle here.

Pakistani law does support mother in case of custody BUT no law can take away visitation rights of any parent. Plus , I don’t know if your brother is paying or not but she (his ex wife) is entitles to Child Support and can sue him for that any time.

I am surprised that the so called HORRIBLE WOMAN did not dump her children on him. Because if she was so horrible then she should have left the kids with their dad and should have carried on with her life and should have married her love. I think your brother is the one who has gained most from his divorce. She is the one who is left with 2 kids to be raised on her own. I think she was not a janwaar thats why she did not leave her kids.

Your brother sounds like a nanha kakaa to me who was being abused by his wife , then he was soo unhappy in his marriage that he resorted to have an affair and his gf is verrrry chalaak that’s why he got trapped. He is sooo innocent that halaat made him do all bad things.

Mr. Tipu it’s very easy to place the blame on someone else. But in the eyes of Allah we all are responsible & answerable for our own deeds. There is no justification for extra marital affair neither for man nor for woman. There is no justification for dumping your kids. You can not blame anyone for divorce , if he gave it he is responsible for it. He is not a robot God has given him brain too.

I just don’t understand how he made 2 kids with a wife who was so horrible & abusive.