Re: The looser
No sir!
We are not asking to remain celibate for life.
All we are asking him to stay away from the girl who was part of story (as 3rd party), in any case (it very rear but not impossible) for a decent girl would fall for married guy.
She (the 3rd party) was actually working for him, and suppose to marry someone else, but she dump him and opt for married boss. I am not sure if it genuine love or some gold digger taking advantage of his situation.