The Intimate 5th/6th Graders

[Angel_4_Ever]

Re: The Intimate 5th/6th Graders

@minah_pa

Serendipiti - again, that is not the fault of the child, but the adult. Children will experiment with different things make-up, clothes, swearing but they are still children trying “grown-up” stuff. They are still children. Why blame the child, definitely blame the 20 yr old, he knows better. No matter how much make-up and what clothes - a 12 yr old looks like a 12 yr old, if it is too hard to tell visually (and it isn’t that hard) then as soon as they talk, it is obvious.

They shouldn’t have to interpret advances, the advances never should be made.

I agree that the advances should never be made…but it doesnt mean that the kids should be left on their own…after all they are just that ‘kids’. I dont think they should be left on their own coz if they choose the wrong path at this age then these same kids will end up becoming adults who are upto no good.
So parents need to act responsibly, and by responsibly i dont mean they should not allow the kids any freedom at all. The kids should have a lot of freedom and at the same time they should be made to understand whats right and whats not.

I’ll give u a sad example, my aunt went to a party a few days back and there were these 13-14 year old girls there who were wearing backless dressess and were sitting on a bench and thats not all. Mature men were not only ogling at them but whenever they got a chance were trying to rub against them.
Now tell me should the kids that age be allowed to dress like that?