With many people you dont have a consistent relation. It just keeps going up and down. I have a friend who i dearly love and who loves me too. We are great friends but we keep having one or the other problem all the time. I tend to misunderstand, he tends to misunderstand. I say something wrong. In every conversation we have, we have some sort of a fight. The discussions get so heated that we end up not talking to each other for days. We dont give each other much of a margin of error. I would normally end a fight quick but would create the fuss initially. Even if i dont start a fight or any discussion some problem enters some how. Its so disturbing and stressful.
I dont understand and dont know why we dont have a consistent relationship … From where and how a problem occurs. The fun in the relation is going day by day. These issues lead to lack of communication at both ends. Although we miss each other, the normal carefree aspect of talk does not exist any more. It worries me how things can be fixed when they have gone so sour already.
Me and my best friend are the same. We are amazing friends and then we suddenly stop talking and have a fight. After 2 3 weeks we are back to normal. Once we both did not talk to each other for 1 year. Then now we are back to normal. It's crazy and I hate these fluctuations in my relationship with her.
This is not friendship , it is love-hate relationship.
Friends do argue , but they do not fight , they do not stop talking to each other for any reason.
My opinion , I might be wrong. Because I never had a heated argument or fight with any of my friends ever.
Dude i think you're a lil too much in to hte guy ... i don't even kno if you're a grl or a guy ... but it seems like ur interested in the person .... and these kinda ups and downs are a normal part of a relationship ... any relationship ... you have known him for so long that you expect better from him for things ... so just sit down with him and have a good convo about expectations and stick to them
With many people you dont have a consistent relation. It just keeps going up and down. I have a friend who i dearly love and who loves me too. We are great friends but we keep having one or the other problem all the time. I tend to misunderstand, he tends to misunderstand. I say something wrong. In every conversation we have, we have some sort of a fight. The discussions get so heated that we end up not talking to each other for days. We dont give each other much of a margin of error. I would normally end a fight quick but would create the fuss initially. Even if i dont start a fight or any discussion some problem enters some how. Its so disturbing and stressful.
I dont understand and dont know why we dont have a consistent relationship ..... From where and how a problem occurs. The fun in the relation is going day by day. These issues lead to lack of communication at both ends. Although we miss each other, the normal carefree aspect of talk does not exist any more. It worries me how things can be fixed when they have gone so sour already.
Write some examples and specifics of your debates and scenariois.
Your whole post was generalized despite you mentioned an actual person to person relationship.
ur describing ur friend the way a guy talks about his love i nterest..which is usually a female..also friendships are meant to be relaxing and keeoping u happy n comfprtable n if its not doing that then what is the point of this friend?..id unno thats just my thoughts..u know better ur situation..good luck