The guy with his mama's tattoo.

So my cousins best friend got a rishta recently and while talking to the guy during the ‘getting to know phase’, he showed her a tattoo of his mom’s name etched across his chest. We aren’t talking about a small tattoo inscribed on the side of his chest, supposedly it’s huge and ALL across his chest.
He asked the girl if this was okay with her before they go any further in the rishta process. She told him to get it removed if he still wants to marry her. In other words, “take it off or take off.” (another one: remove it or be removed. We had so much fun with this when she told us).. khair

So I was wondering what a lot of you folks would do in a situation like this. Other than this issue, the guy and girl seem to have a pretty good understanding and were ready to move forward with the whole process. Would you do what she did or does this indicate the sign of a big Mama’s boy and a big no no?

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Mama boy alert big time.

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You're right. Love for your parent's is one thing, but a name tattoo just gives it creepy vibes.

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Means yes we all luv our moms too but tatooing into our bodies is not normal at alllll blue bells. This is first time i ever heard.

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Would she still have a problem if it wasn't his mum's name tattoo'ed across his chest?!

I do agree, something like that is a bit weird; I can understand a small tattoo or whatever I guess.

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well...is his mother alive?

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that guy seems like a psycho....

she should check his basement.........

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maybe it isn’t his mama’s name :hmmm:

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I hate Tattoos and that would be a major turn off for me especially a huge tattoo :eek: Yuck! :bummer: However, if he showed his immense love for his mom/dad in any other decent way then i would definately be bowled over. There is nothing like a person loving his/her parents dearly and i hold that in great esteem :k:.

p.s he showed his chest to the girl just like that, that is also a bit strange so yah maybe there is something wrong with the guy! :disgust:

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Dont you know they were in “getting to know each other phase” :hehe:

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remove it or be removed :rotfl:

Yes my first question is, he showed her his chest? Because than I need to LOL real hard.

Yes it maybe strange, but does she really have the right to tell him to remove it? I mean don’t you think she’s crossing a line with that? Though, every time he would take his shirt off her MIL will be in her face.

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Maybe his ex shared the same name with his mum.. :rolleyes:

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Agree..

If it was an actual name I’d doubt it was for mum.. since when do desi kids use their parents’ names? Much more likely some girl he was seeing..

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So guy cant get a ristha because he love his mom and have her name tattooed?

My wallet currently have small pics of my ammi and abbu. Should I call and tell this to my wife? will she file for divorce if I do? :hmmm:

OK, its a bit uncommon but Same girl will be on moon…announcing left, right and center if the guy gets tatto of her name on his chest.

PS: Personally, I hate tattoos and I am tottaly against it.

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It may not be normal amongst desis/muslims but lots of ppl who get tattoos get “RIP or In memory of..” kind of tattoos…

now u got me wanting ot listen to rap music. :nahi:

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Lol, I’m pretty open minded, but what i find as creepy as the tattoo itself is that he bared his chest to show it to her! Yes big time mama’s boy alert, it’s one thing to love your mom, but to have her name engraved on your chest feels like a weird obsession.
Oh and imagine when you’re getting romantic with hubby, and you see his mom’s name engraved like that! That will err, just kill the moment right? :bummer:

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I wonder what he’ll be showing her on the next phase :disgust:.

:chai:

p.s actually let’s not wonder about that! :nono:

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its not about loving his mom. its about having it tattooed on a bare skin. gross.

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Stupid fella .........

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Tell him to let to his chest hair grow out....the jungle will conceal the tattoo.