bollywood and hollywood and other wood films are to blame! they all paint such a rosy picture of what romance is,relationships are etc,too bad life isnt like the movies. my first year of marriage was hard cos me and hubby were apart,for our second year too, so by the time we came to properly live together,i guess it was a relief our seperation was over and it was just a nice year in general lol. there were a few hiccups, but nothing majorly personal, mainly stuff like hubby finding it hard to get a job etc.
Ours was kind of similar, we were apart for a year and a half before we lived together. once we started living together, it was sitll difficult because of our circumstances.... its jus been tough all around.
Its easy to blaem bollywood but there are those who don't believe in it. I personally never watched a movie and if i did i was smart enough to know relationships aren't always like that. i always knew that marriages requried compromise and sacrifice......but i still found it really difficult to adjust and deal with some things our first..2-3 years.