Re: The First Slap: Where to draw the line?
The question “How can you sleep with someone who physically abuses you” was also asked by a former colleage…desi woman in her 40s whose ex husband used to hit her. He wasn’t always mean either. But I wonder the same thing as her. Surely, how you view your spouse must change after that…there has to be a shattering/shifting of feelings…like a crack where things are just not whole anymore…and that prevents you from having respect for them…let alone being physically intimate with them.