The First Slap: Where to draw the line?

[terebina786]

Re: The First Slap: Where to draw the line?

@Gaia

He said that the slap shouldn’t be taken too ‘seriously’, because when angry either partner can get physical and this happens in every relationship… ( my point of view >>:eek:<<). And she says she kinda of agrees with him but at the same time knows physical abuse is not okay, but maybe it was her fault this time, and she pushed him. But she’s too weak and too traditional to even bring the topic or the idea of separation to the family.

Two things:

1. I wonder how he would react if she had slapped him.. Because if my husband said that to me I’d slap one back SO hard his head would spin and then ask him how do you them them apples?

2. No wonder abuse is rampant in our community. It seems like people are ok with it. It’s a damn shame.

Anyways, I hope it works out for your friend whatever she may choose.

ETA: In my eyes, there’s nothing anyone can do that can warrant being slapped, especially by a significant other.