WHAT DOES SUHAAG MEAN?
WHAT DOES SUHAAAG MEAN?
khwabb adhurai sahee...
khawaab saharai to heh!
i think it means spouse.. atleast in indian movies, thats what i gather
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Originally posted by Pristine:
**Lest those of you who have limited knowledge, go away with the wrong impression, let me try to clarify something.
Marriage is usually a very special ocassion in the lives of both the bride and the groom. It is usually preceded by weeks of preparation and anticipation. In a typical wedding, the wedding day itself is full of activity and the night stretches to the wee hours by the time rukhsati takes place and the photographers take their leave. Its true that the bride wears heavy dresses and an heavier makeup.
But none of that compares to the magic of what follows. For those who care about these things (i.e. those who chose not to engage in pre-marital sexual liasons), the marriage contract (nikkah) is that something special which no other relationship provides to you. And for most brides and grooms, that simple piece of paper transforms a lot of things.
No one will say that it is mandatory to consummate the marriage on the first night, however, its probably not far from truth to say that most marriages do get consummated on the first night anyway. Its not out of some sort of social, religious or biological compulsion. Its simply because this is what both partners want.
To those who do not understand this thing at this point, you will, when you get to that point in your lives.
And if either of the partners do not wish to do so, there is no religious or moral code which dictates that you have to do it on the first night. If you hear anything to the contrary, its probably a twisted and frustrated male who came up with that bogus ruling.**
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Couldn't have said it better, looks as if we have too many unmarried couples trying to be naive here. Anyway, whats the first thing you do when u get a drivers license ... DRIVE ... similarly when u get a nikah naama, u know what that licenses u to in physical terms ....
Dont worry guys n gals .... someday u will understand ...
And PCG .... I suggest to find another hubby if u plan to keep him at bay for 6 months because thats exactly what he'll be doing if not for legitimate reasons.
Its our Wits that make us MEN .... 'Braveheart'
I think "suhaag" means auspicious. Anyone got a hindi/sanskrit dictionary?
dont worry, my nerves are made of steel.
I'll last out the six months.
Keep in mind, this would only happen if I were forced into a marriage with a guy i DONT like. In the 6 months , i'll be looking for a divorce.
Hmm...even after 6 months, if i'm stuck with him, then i'll go for it - but that's a worst case scenario. Chances are, I'll get a divorce.
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Originally posted by PyariCgudia:
**dont worry, my nerves are made of steel.
I'll last out the six months.
Keep in mind, this would only happen if I were forced into a marriage with a guy i DONT like. In the 6 months , i'll be looking for a divorce.
Hmm...even after 6 months, if i'm stuck with him, then i'll go for it - but that's a worst case scenario. Chances are, I'll get a divorce.**
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i thought islamically, if u don't consumate the marriage within the first 6 months, its automatically nullified...anyone else know bout this?
At the end of the game the king and the pawn go back in the same box.
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Originally posted by DeSiMuNdA:
** i thought islamically, if u don't consumate the marriage within the first 6 months, its automatically nullified...anyone else know bout this?
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It's 4 month
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You frighten me. I hope there aren’t too many of your mind around.
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The Future Just Happened!
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Female and their false sense of feminine pride.
I’m guessing you don’t know what you are missing and hence can be excused.
feminine pride?? GEEZ google thats an awful thing to say, your a guy so i dont thing youde know if something was femanine pride if it hit u in the face! sorry i sound mad but i can help it, its almost like ure looking down at women! in case u havent noticed PG said to keep in mind if she was “forced” into a marriage to a person she didnt like, shes doing the sensible thing by divorcing him, ide make the idiot suffer! (and i mean like HELL)
im not looking for a divorce but i wouldnt want to be forced into a marriage, imagine if u were forced, to girl who was totally unattractive to u??
Sugar, spice 'n all things nice
Sweet Zara
To us male, feminine pride is kinda cute
no no
I am not the type of woman who looks extensively at looks...i'm talking about an all-around rat *******.
You know...someone who is up to no good in society, totally UnIslamic, attitudy, oppressive -- heck, yes. If the pak govt can't punish him, I will.
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Originally posted by PyariCgudia:
**no no
I am not the type of woman who looks extensively at looks...i'm talking about an all-around rat *******.
You know...someone who is up to no good in society, totally UnIslamic, attitudy, oppressive -- heck, yes. If the pak govt can't punish him, I will.**
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If ur so headstrong .... I should say you shouldnt get pushed into it the first place ... once u do ... things are different.
Did u know its a medical fact that females use both parts of there brain to make decisions, which is why they cant reach one decisively.
Its our Wits that make us MEN .... 'Braveheart'
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That’s the male explanation of it.
Actually that statement is false. As anyone knowledgable about brain functions.
Nop I guess not but dont ask for links cos I dont have any right now.
Well thats not the male explanation of it, its general human nature.
Does ur reply mean girls do not oppose parental coercion if they are capable of doing so. It works if parents equally have regard for their children but doesnt where parents think their child is their asset.
Its our Wits that make us MEN … ‘Braveheart’
You women are too optimist sometimes
suhag (p. 0705)
H suHAg suhag, sohag [Prk. suHggn; S. saubhAgghn], s.m. Auspiciousness, good fortune; blessedness; happiness, joy, pleasure; the affection of a husband, affection; an act of endearment, a caress; the happy and auspicious state of wife-hood (as opposed to widowhood), the conjugal state, coverture; a kind of ornament or decoration worn by a woman during the lifetime of her husband; a kind of marriage song; congratulations, good wishes: – suhag - batta, s.m. A medicine used in the milk-fever (parsoti) of lying-in women: – suhag-bhari, adj. f. Beloved, favourite, happy (wife):-<-> suhag-pitara or suhag-pura, s.m. A basket, or a paper folded in the shape of a sugar-loaf, containing cosmetics, paints, perfumes, a comb, bangles and other ornaments, and fruits, &c., presented by a bridegroom to his bride: – suhag chinna or suhag utarna (-ka), To be deprived of coverture (a woman), to become a widow: – suhag-sej, s.f. The nuptial bed: – suhag-ka itr, s.m. The perfume of good luck,’ a perfume rubbed on a bride and bridegroom: – suhag-lahar, s.f. A favourable wind; a cool refreshing breeze.
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i sympathize for the pathetic loser that cant get any even after getting MARRIED!
hahaha
Better to die 1000 times in glory than live without honor-Louis VI