I am not saying he’s a baby. I am saying he’s unreliable and we owe it to ourselves to watch out for people who can hurt us. Its not his job to be good to her. Its her job to be good to herself.
What I am saying is…the responsibility to do good for yourself lies squarely on your own shoulders. Not anyone else’s. The expectation that an ex who keeps you hanging for an extended period of time is worth even worrying about is foolish in my opinion.
I will not put myself in a position to get disappointed when I KNOW I will be and I have been in the past. I know better and value myself a bit more than that.