The difference in preception

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       How do girls take sex, are they stimulated by the same factors, by which boys do??????

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              So no help arround, something worng i have asked

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       Ok admin you can lock it

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from what i heard at a show on tv, guys are more visual oriented whereas girls are more verbal oriented.

hence the reason why you'd find more playboy magazines in a guy's room and more mills & boons novels in a girl's room.

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Originally posted by fido:
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       How do girls take sex, are they stimulated by the same factors, by which boys do??????

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       I just wanted to know that what is their point of view, or their preception as far as sex, in books and as practicle is considered, secondly same again ""are they stimulated by the same factors, by which boys do??????""

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fido yaar..

jawaab to tumhay laRkian hi day saktee hain or agay koi baRh kay lead nahi laina chahta. Until then, hold your breath...

not a very good idea

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  • Uniform ideas originating among entire peoples unknown to each other
    must have a common ground of truth..*

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hmm…so …no…courage…

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speak up girls will you ..!!!


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[This message has been edited by fido (edited August 05, 2002).]

No, girls are different...

Guys are more materialistic but girls are not. I don't think any girl enjoys it if she's not emotionally involved with the person. Girls are not usually attracted by good looks but other things such as the person's intellect and charactor.

Every woman is different, just like each man is different. You can't lump all womankind into one box and say - they all get attracted by such and such.

Depending upon the woman, all things about men are fairplay to get attracted to (in random order):

muscles/body
figure
size of "package"
strength (physical and mental/emotional)
decision-making capabilities
intelligence
overall health
hobbies/interests
wages/income/inheritance
blah blah blah

I could sit here and list endless factors.

We're not THAT different from men, though. Many men get attracted by stuff that they dont necessarily talk about. But all you hear is boobs and behinds. That doesn't mean that body is the only thing men get attracted by, does it?

well.. girls are more picky.. they want to be more emotionally attached first.


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   Thats strange, so PyariCgudia, it mean that girls are stimulated, like men do. But what about the emotional part, my own openion is that, they go more for some emotional affilaition, to be liked. Aren't they??

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Originally posted by PyariCgudia:
**Every woman is different, just like each man is different. You can't lump all womankind into one box and say - they all get attracted by such and such.

Depending upon the woman, all things about men are fairplay to get attracted to (in random order):

muscles/body
figure
size of "package"
strength (physical and mental/emotional)
decision-making capabilities
intelligence
overall health
hobbies/interests
wages/income/inheritance
blah blah blah

I could sit here and list endless factors.

We're not THAT different from men, though. Many men get attracted by stuff that they dont necessarily talk about. But all you hear is boobs and behinds. That doesn't mean that body is the only thing men get attracted by, does it?

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All that and a bag of chips eh?!?

p.s. I am just glad to be one of the guys, again!

Fido Dido… your Question is rather vague… seemed like you just wanted to tease or something…!!

Have you been in a physical relationship?? i think …particularly in our culture , as compared to the west, girls do enjoy more when they feel love for the man … and then they mature to the degree that they can enjoy the physical side of it more than just looking for the right feeling , the right emotions etc etc.

And ofcourse the general idea is that women do enjoy the verbal effort. But don’t you start chatting her up when she is in a mood for some action little boy

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!!! You have to know her well and ask her how she likes it better… that’s the tip!!!

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They story is arround being intercource, but my question was in a broder view, i have heard that girls, enjoy it more than the biys do , (why?, i never know)

But many other things that confsing about girls, how do they take sex, not intercourse, like do they like to have sex with some one, or do they like to initaite such relations. Ok to be more open, boys see porn, to just kill the frustation, or ok to just feel it eazy(not all boys do that but the majority). Also , they are well aroused by the figure, and that is purely phsyical.

  In short the boys want to have sex( many of them), do girls want it as well???. Boys watch porn, and they do certain things, and thats needed(I guess), what about girls. Do any body wants to answer me. I wll really apericaite if some one can help me out. 

P.S; i am not trying to get offensive for any one, so pls do not take it like that.!!


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Fido

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I sound really confuse..did not I?

[This message has been edited by fido (edited August 10, 2002).]

fido find urself a wife..ITS TIME

[This message has been edited by Sheraz CT (edited August 10, 2002).]

fido, please state clearly what it is that you want answered...initially you asked how girls take sex and are the same factors involved.

The factors I already told you of...a woman finds a man attracctive based upon many things -- looks and/or personality. Men do also, its just that our society has made it such that we see men as wanting only the physical and not the emotional, when categorizing men and women like that is unfair since factors of attraction vary depending upon the INDIVIDUAL.

At least, this is what my experience has taught me.

And yes, women do enjoy sex. And yes, women do WANT to have sex. In fact, its not even a WANT, its a NEED. Its an instinct that both man and women have.

CULTURALLY, we Pakistanis have made it OK for a man to manifest his physical desire for sex, whereas for women its considered improper for them to even look at a man longingly. However, this is our cultural invention, and the FACT is that women want it just as much as men. And depending upon the person, some folks also take into consideration the emotional aspect of sex, regardless of gender.

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       PyariCgudia, thanks a lot for so much help, you really have cleared many things, i my self was not much cleared that what i wanted to ask, actually it started when we friends were talking about , how do women or girls take sex, and we all present different views, their was a openion that they are too open minded about sex, and also that they do not get stimulated by the same factors, like nudity, pornography etc etc. The second issue was that they are more emotionally involve rather physical, like, one of my friend said that they need the whole atmosphere to enjoy the situation. Lastly we were all confused, ok we all heard that girl enjoy more, but i have heard that its a pain ful procedure, than where is the enjoying portion. Is it like, the feeling of being liked, that enjoy or the actual physical interaction.

          You can answer if you do not feel this question offensive.

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Fido
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