nope..sorry brother …there is no REASONING in islam…to listen..is to obey…
reasoning is the attitude of Bani Israel…for what they did with cow …and its slaughtering as in Sura BAqra…and then what allah did with them…they will wander till qiyyammah in world and give azab to them by different people as in quran…
so …its not allowed to ask reason …
Surah Hashr verse 7 “And whatsoever the messenger giveth you, take it. And whatsoever he forbiddeth, abstain (from it). And keep your duty to Allah. Lo! Allah is stern in reprisal.”
did there in any hadees that sahabs asked the pophet(pbuh) following questions…
- why gold allow for women..why not to men…
*why silk allowed to women..why not to men
*why gold and silvr utensils are not allowed..whats wrong with them…
etc etc…
so ..as in above quran says..take it what he gives ..and leave what he forbidden…
also prophet(pbuh) said …Do not ask so many questions…previous ummahs destroyed because of it…
ahadees about musical instruments…
**The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: **
**[FONT=Times New Roman] “Among my ummah there will certainly be people who permit zinaa, silk, alcohol and musical instruments…” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari ta’leeqan, no. 5590; narrated as mawsool by al-Tabaraani and al-Bayhaqi. See al-Silsilah al-Saheehah by al-Albaani, 91). **
It was narrated that Naafi’ (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Ibn ‘Umar heard a woodwind instrument, and he put his fingers in his ears and kept away from that path. He said to me, O Naafi’, can you hear anything? I said, No. So he took his fingers away from his ears and said: I was with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and he heard something like this, and he did the same thing. (Saheeh Abi Dawood)
Al-Tirmidhi reported in his Sunan (no. 1005) from Ibn Abi Layla from ‘Ata’ from Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: “The Messenger of Allaah
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(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) went to to al-Nakhl with ‘Abd al-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf, when his son Ibraaheem was dying. He took the child in his lap and his eyes filled with tears. ‘Abd al-Rahmaan said, ‘Are you weeping when you have forbidden us to weep?’ He said, 'I do not forbid weeping. What I have forbidden is two foolish and evil kinds of voices: voices at times of entertainment and play and the flutes of the Shaytaan, and voices at times of calamity and scratching the face and rending the garments and screaming.’”
It was reported in a saheeh hadeeth from the Prophet
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(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “In my ummah there will be people who allow fornication/adultery (zina), silk, wine and musical instruments ma’aazif]. Some people will stay at the side of a mountain, and they will have flocks of sheep. When a poor person comes in the evening to ask them for something he needs, they will say. ‘Come back to us tomorrow.’ Then during the night Allaah will destroy them by causing the mountain to fall upon them, while He changes others into apes and swine. They will remain in such a state until the Day of Resurrection.’”
