Exactly!!!
As a woman, I always feel stuck in a tight spot. When I like a guy, and in the rare event he has a concussion and sees me as mildly attractive in return, I choose to not let him think I like him. Because then it becomes easy for him, and he will get bored.
But then some bombshell walks by, and my plans to have him chase me are ruined.
I really prefer just being honest - oh you like me? Ok, I like you too. Let’s make this work.
WHY is that SO BAD???
But I’ve noticed it gets guys super bored, and then next thing I know, I’m alone again.
meh