How important is this concept in attempting to get the girl? Social norms dictate that a guy must “win” the heart of a woman to have a relationship. That has been the traditional norm for the past few centuries.
But is it truly necessary? Woman do play hard to get but for what reason? What purpose does it serve when the matter could easily be handled honestly?
The social dynamic of the chase - is it an outdated model that does not function in a more moderns society or is it necessary to see if the man or woman is of enough value that he/she will try hard to get what they want?
Why must you chase anyway? if she's interested she'll tell you.. with so many great pretenders lurking do you really think women fall for the 'honesty' table confrences?
But that is the same question I have. Why must one chase? The process is seen as one of steady elimination of the best suited mate or potential mate. A man or woman (as in this day women also give chase) seeks to win the admiration of the other sex through actions which basically state that the other person is very important to them. The chase involves actions which are taken for that specific someone to "win" them over.
Thus the question is it an outdated model or one that has social relevancy?
Common sense will provide this answer to your question.
Anything you can obtain without much ado you will not take good care of it.
But if you strive hard to get something you will surely take good care of it , adore it , love it, be proud of it and be very possessive of it.
The chase has more to do with men then women, contrary to popular belief.
If a man is honest and tells a woman his feelings and she responds with the same, its doomed from the beginning. Why? Because it was too easy for him and he starts to take her for granted.
The Chase has been implemented to help MEN realize the worth of WOMEN. Y'all want The Chase to stop? Start respecting your women more.
OH yaar i am done wid dat, girls are way too friggin complicated, I quit, I ask my numerous sisters and my amma to find me one, cuz i surely cant do it
P.S lalay chase apparently keeps “men” (us) interested as per sources.
women chase guys more than other way round, only difference is that they are always under-cover. Men are like police in uniform easily recognizable while girls are like under-cover agents...
women chase guys more than other way round, only difference is that they are always under-cover. Men are like police in uniform easily recognizable while girls are like under-cover agents...
Sort of true - but the thing is women don't want to get their hearts trampled on in case their interest isn't returned, ergo the covert, coy lures being put out by the women folk.
If the guys learned to say it like it was and appreciated the women for who they were - all would be right with the world...
Uh....throughout history, men have been labeled the "hunters." Hunters hunt or chase. So, it starts with the men, as pointed out above by Reha.
If you look at it from an animalistic point of view, predators chase. That's what builds their appetite. It's like there's less interest and things are taken for granted if little to zero work went into attaining the goal. Most women, by nature, desire to settle down with a stable partner and have a family. It's not like many women would want to make it difficult to acheive this.
If women "play games" or "play hard to get", it's because they've noticed that being upfront and honest and emotionally available decreases interest in the "hunter."
If women "play games" or "play hard to get", it's because they've noticed that being upfront and honest and emotionally available decreases interest in the "hunter."
