Re: The career woman bride
yup = I think many people have a hard time because they are SOOO tunnel visioned about woman’s career.
My aunt wanted a good housemaker for her son (my cousin) as well. She rejected a girl he liked because she was in med school and GOD FORBID 
they couldn’t have a surgeon (my cousin) and another career inspired woman run a household. Well her butting in and tunnel vision made the whole thing go soar. And the girl ended up marrying someone else. My cousin on the other hand couldn’t find someone else that he clicks with and till this day pines for her. 
My aunt is the first one the admit she should have not made the “career” thing into such a big issue. Well ab bhughat rahi hain.
Why is career such a big deal in the rishta process? I don’t get it. Let the couple work it out when they married and decide to have kids. It’s a non issue until then.