Sometimes I think guys can’t win for trying.
Now girls let’s be honest, when you’re meeting a guy or dating him, while you may want him to demonstrate thoughtfulness and consideration, you don’t go into a relationship hoping for a hen-pecked husband - that might come later.
Most girls want an alpha male, a guy with presence, someone who stands out in a crowd. Most betas get overlooked for being too nice or passive.
And why is it a problem for a guy to be macho amongst his friends - so long as he is being himself. Do you want him to discuss the best diaper rash cream or knitting patterns? Is that a turn on?
Boys will be boys and will talk about whatever they want and will talk in a manner that they’re comfortable with.
Reminds me of a guy I met. He cussed like a sailor and while I may swear, I limit it to in my head. I didn’t care what he did when he was with his friends - my only requirement was that he show me the same consideration he showed his mum and bhabhi and curb his swearing in my presence.
Insaan ko mauqa mahal dekh kai baat karna chahiyey.