… or alternatively - thank god this person is not my spouse (how many feel like that after reading some of the life 1 threads :D)
Have you ever gone through that? What traits of others make you shudder to the level that you thank Allah for not being or not related to that person. Would it be their nature, character, or the circumstances that surround them (the ones we call fortune of luck).
there are people on GS who have lose character ... no way .. tell me more
I meant that regarding thier online persona............and I can usually tell when people are trolling and when they really mean what they post........its some of the latter type responses that makes me thankful at times
Not really… I wasn’t always the way I am right now… we don’t know what these people went through or why are they like this. May be if we lived the way they had to live their lives, we would also be like them. If Allah wanted I could be one of them, I could be anyone. So I think one should be grateful for whatever they are and not compare themselves with other people so much.
However when i see people in trouble and going through hell, I do realize I have a lot to be grateful for.
And what do I know, maybe for many people I myself probably am one of such people, they wouldn’t want to trade places with