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do they think the same?
Meh who knows.
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do I have to tell the truth 
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yes…please do tell!!!
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aray mazaq kiya thaa .. 
thank god I am not you ..
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i tend to not think in that way or judge another person b/c most likely they probably had something happen to them in their past which caused them to be the way they are now.
i know a white southern girl that grew up in a house where her father used to regularly beat up his wife, do the most horrible things to her, the female friend of mine saw all that while growing up so she's very averse to all men and very defensive now.
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hahaha…good one 
ur such a drama queen 
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Whenever i hear about my cousins' husbands in Pakistan and read about womens stories here!
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nah...we can't really completely know people. i'm not so bothered about people to imagine myself as them and then not want to be them =\
there may be moments where you're like thank God that wasn't or isn't me.
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i tend to not think in that way or judge another person b/c most likely they probably had something happen to them in their past which caused them to be the way they are now.
see when we entertain their behavior like such, they get encouraged. Rudeness has no justifications. We cannot say that oh its fine if TLK is rude, maybe he had a bitter past.
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see when we entertain their behavior like such, they get encouraged. Rudeness has no justifications. We cannot say that oh its fine if TLK is rude, maybe he had a bitter past.
Exactly.
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Meh who knows.
and by that he means.....
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Meh who cares?
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see when we entertain their behavior like such, they get encouraged. Rudeness has no justifications. We cannot say that oh its fine if TLK is rude, maybe he had a bitter past.
nobody was rude, who said she's rude, i just hate it when people have a holier than thou attitude and are less understanding of others. that's what's annoying. not everybody grows up in a wonderful environment nor are they having the wonderful life that you or I might have, so all i'm saying is i would be more understanding and less arrogant.
she's fine and a really sweet person but she tends to be more to herself and by herself. i feel compassion for her not "oh thank god i'm not her", she has gotten counseling help from an outreach program so it's not like she's encouraging any of this in herself. i don't know much about her but she's nice to me.
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nobody was rude, who said she's rude, i just hate it when people have a holier than thou attitude and are less understanding of others. that's what's annoying. not everybody grows up in a wonderful environment nor are they having the wonderful life that you or I might have, so all i'm saying is i would be more understanding and less arrogant.
she's fine and a really sweet person but she tends to be more to herself and by herself. i feel compassion for her not "oh thank god i'm not her", she has gotten counseling help from an outreach program so it's not like she's encouraging any of this in herself. i don't know much about her but she's nice to me.
I was not talking about your friend. I am saying in general.
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oopps i keep misunderstanding you tlk bhai, yes if they are rude and know they're like that and aren't taking any steps towards improving then i know what you mean.
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i dont judge people from the threads they post or the posts they post.
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oopps i keep misunderstanding you tlk bhai, yes if they are rude and know they're like that and aren't taking any steps towards improving then i know what you mean.
I agree.
i dont judge people from the threads they post or the posts they post.
we also dont judge you by the posts you post.
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I'm fairly new here so still getting used to the idea of people trolling/having multiple profiles.
It's really hard to tell if people are really serious about some of the problems they post on here or are just BS-ing to incite conversation.
But yeah, I've seen some replies posted by people here and wished I could slap them upside the head in real and knock some sense into them.
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thanks God. otherwise i was quite worried about the changhaiz khan image i have created here of myself 
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and wished I could slap them upside the head in real and knock some sense into them.
mashallah, such a display of affection and kindness. I am all teary right now.
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For me, probably the only time where I think "Thank God I'm not such and such or married to so and so" is hearing about a friend's husband who is aggressive and violent. That's more compassion towards my friends i suppose.