Tell or Not to Tell Part 2

[Sara516]

@snowy_winter

And WHY shouldn’t he break off the engagement ? Lots of possibilities here:

1.The guy has been doing hanky panky himself in which case he deserves her.

2. The guy is clean and who knows what else the girl has been doing besides the making out ? She may have been around the block for all we know. In this case, why would anyone wanna ruin the guy’s life ?

3. The guy is great and the girl is great and has truly repented. But then who will be the judge of the sincerety of her repentment.

So yes, IT IS A BIG DEAL !!

Are you being sarcastic? Btw, I forget the original problem and am too lazy to read it (same stuff being repeated over and over in threads these days). BUT:

1. So what? If one of them was doing hanky panky or wasnt–does it really affect your life?

2. How is her having been around the block before, and then stopped, when she met him, ruining his life? btw–I feel the same way if the situation was reversed. If a guy dated, whatever, and then changed when he married–the past shouldn’t matter.

3. If one repents, it’s nobody’s business what they did or repented for. only Allah swt can judge the sincerity of one’s repenting.

BTW, i can see this as a good way to test a rishta ure not sure of. Tell em u dated or had sex and see how they react.