Re: Tell or Not to Tell Part 2
Oh how come no one thought of using the pet phrase like, "what if it were your own brother engaged to that girl. Wouldn't you want him to know! Would you let him marry a girl who had a colourful past." Also, no one is worried about this poor guy's health or life, supposing that the lady in question contracted an STD.
@ snowy winter:
We are only human beings, we cannot read other's minds. Hence it's not possible for us to gauge the extent of someone's repentence. Nor shall we try to judge them I suppose. If a person has apparently repented and is behaving in a decent manner, then they shouldn't be tormented about what they were like in past.
I don't think in cases like this, it's nice if a third party comes and tells you the painful truth. Somehow it doesn't seem right to me.