Tell or Not to Tell Part 2

[snowy_winter]

@Iconoclast

Its NOT about cheating, apparently everything happened before engagement. Its about disclosing an information that a person would like to know that is the boy.

If you tell this person, most likely (if he is a usual desi guy) will break off the engagement, for him, just finding out that a friend knows about his fiance’s affair, kissing and hearing from from someone will be enough of an embarassment. Though he may otherwise might cater the possibility that such may have happened, “hearing” it from another person WILL make it an entirely different thing.

And WHY shouldn’t he break off the engagement ? Lots of possibilities here:

1.The guy has been doing hanky panky himself in which case he deserves her.

2. The guy is clean and who knows what else the girl has been doing besides the making out ? She may have been around the block for all we know. In this case, why would anyone wanna ruin the guy’s life ?

3. The guy is great and the girl is great and has truly repented. But then who will be the judge of the sincerety of her repentment.

So yes, IT IS A BIG DEAL !!