^It’s interesting how quickly the stance changes if it’s a girl involved in the scenario. If it were a guy doing this random kissing before committing most of the ladies here will be saying, 'he is a scumbag, and he has no right to marry a decent girl". The principle that maybe he has mended his errant ways wouldn’t apply there, because all men are pigs by defaultrollseyes
Now I am not suggesting go and tell on her. But I was thinking, how come no one thought of the possibility of trying to ‘sudhaar’ the husband in the “Tell or Not to Tell” thread, where the consequences would be much more serious and devastating. It could wreck an entire family! No one for a second suggested like try to make your friend correct his errant ways, so that it doesn’t destroy the life of his wife and kids.
P.S. I am a woman myself! But I am tired of the double standards and hypocricy of certain people. Hasn’t anyone here heard about objectivity?
P.P.S. And I am in not saying that cheating on your spouse is okay. But telling on others and wrecking their lives is wrong in my humble opinion. We aren’t Gods. We aren’t perfect ourselves, cheating is not the only crime or sin one can commit in a marriage, what gives us the right to judge others and to try to ‘punish’ them???
Perfectly true!!