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Would refuse getting married to someone because of there skin colour?!

What do you think of people who get married to people who have a lighter/darker/same skin colour?!

What do you think of people who refuse getting married to people because of thier sking colour?!

Why does some people judge people unfairly cos of there skin colour?!

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its preferences right, like age, hieght, weight, career, social standing, education level.

I dont see any difference.

now the part of judging, that is a different story, but is based on ingrained societal attitudes. ppl judge others on how they speak, what they wear, what they drive, where they live, where they were educated, how much they were educated, their accent, their weight. so is it fair, not realy, is it one more thing among a host of others that ppl use to judge others..yes. Life is not fair

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We all have our likings, dislikings and prejudices. What are you going to discuss next and where are you going to stop? How about short people, people with disabilities or people who have beards or wear hijaabs. Let everyone choose what suits them and not be judgemental.

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1 who cares about skin colour?

2 I dont mind as long they keep it to themselves :p

3 they should be put against a wall and ******** down

4 because we are human after all. If everyone was good and polite and nice the world would have been very boring I guess. But pakistani are more weird anyway :D

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. But pakistani are more weird anyway :D
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I believe you have tested all the nationalities for their weirdness and as a result you have drawn this conclusion that " Pakistanis are more weird anyway".

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hmmmmm.. kehna asan hain karna mushkil...

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No, though I suppose I may have a subconscious preference.

I don’t care who they marry as long as they get along fine and make each other happy.

You can’t help to whom you’re attracted. However, I would be annoyed/offended if someone refused to give someone of a certain coloring “a chance.”

Stereotypes, biases, preconceived notions, etc etc. Isn’t it obvious in this day and age?

SiNgInG..
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Well, it can be a total turn of, the very idea of getting married
to someone very dark.
It would be like day and night trying to match in daylight....rofl
But hey its a free world, I cant decide for others....
Tan skin is beautiful....

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Tan skin IS beautiful, and there is nothing wrong with a darker desi being with someone with lighter skin color. I place more importance on features (in the looks dept), and most importantly on personality. This whole dark = ugly idea is so silly, because some of the most beautiful pakistani women are dark, and some of the ugliest are gori.

I need to find a picture of Saima and post it up...

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Yes I did

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Never!

its their preference ..I am no one to label anything :slight_smile:

again its their choice

should ask someone who really does it runs after color than features. I agree with PCG that features matters most rather than skin color.

Champions Trophy - Pakistan v Australia - Sep. 30, 09
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Levels of attraction vary from person to person. To someone sanwali haseena is as attractive as a gori one while some people just like to stick to gori rangat.

It is their preference and although that sole criteria is unfair but if they are asked to consider someone seriuosly whom they dont find physically attractive is wrong and two wrongs dont make one right. They are not going to have a platonic relationship so its better they are attracted to their potential spouses. Harsh, but true.

How long is your commute?
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Even siblings can have different skin colour. I don't think people should look base their decisions on skin colour..skin colour is just one component that they need to look at. Personally I don't think that skin colour would matter to me...if the did well against my other yardsticks. I guess I attach greater importance to personality.

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flippin heck r desi gals still in2 skin tone!!!..is dat al dat matterz?lol…anyway im dark n my wife is white, so i gues every1 aint da same

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har aik ki apni taste hoti hai some like ‘’‘white’’ other like bruin and then yet another 1 likes black skin colour . personally i prefer ''bruin girl more then white ones:clown: .will never marry paki girls wannabe “white” lol .my mom is darker while my dad had fair skin .im fair skinned while ma big bro is darker.skin colour ain,t giong to bother me jab phaansi k phandai par charhoon ga:blush:…waisai phaansi ka kitna intezaar karna parhta hai:( :clown: .

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I know hussain87, its a tragedy to be you these days. BTW, I like bruin girls too. Blondes are good but burneets always do it better.

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u dun have to be me:) ..its just preference. i like brown girls more then white ones ..i see alot of ppl suggesting as its some kinda sin or bad thing to be bruin or dark..lol why dun white wannnabe move to west if they r as white as they claim to be?:rolleyes: point is we r ‘‘brown’’ ppl which ain,t bad .:stuck_out_tongue:

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Yes

I have turned down all proposals from Goris:snooty:

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**Green Skin will definetly be a turn off for me.............:D **

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color choice on the basis of personal liking/disliking or preference is acceptable but pre-judging ppl on the basis of color is ridiculous.

Like I personally like “sanwala” color specially girls with “sanwala” color, so that’s my liking but I by no mean think that fair or black girls are less than sanwali girls by any mean