Re: tell me what to do
Or alternatively the two could try, perhaps a little more extensively this time, to find a middle ground somewhere in between like two mature individuals would generally be expected to do. Overcome their one major weakness, that is.
It could just be me, but I’d rather be the last person standing on the brinks of defeat over a relationship, that at some point of time, clearly promised to be a worthwhile one. I could fall eight times and still be hopeful to stand up, she could fail me once and I might just not rise.
End point. Don’t give up. Just not as yet. Pull the minion by his collar if you must to get him to listen and understand the magnitude of concern you’re carrying over the said issue. Once you’ve managed to get his devoted attention, he should let you know of his true intentions. Every sane man does, eventually.