tell me what to do

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Re: tell me what to do

@canadiandesigirl

Everyone has their preference. Plenty of girls move across the world to go where their husbands are and there is nothing wrong with that. But if OP doesn’t want to move then it should be made clear before they get married.

Offcourse! I never meant that girls MUST move after marriage. She should have let the guy know that there is no way the she would move to Pakistan.

@OP

If you are thinking about your family (being a good daughter) and career then you should also think about his family and his career. Now the only thing you can do (to prove to him that you are not selfish) is maybe look for job options for him here (though that is very unlikely)