i didnt changed but made my huby changed a lot he was not social at all i made him very social thn of course i changed his eating habits a s well in short i made good changes in him i m not praising myself but his own frnds says tht u made him a better person n i fee proud of myself even my huby appreciates me that i made his life better he is lucky 2 have me :)
I am same and so is my wife , we have our own individuality and then we have some spousal traits and then we and kids have some family characteristics.
We have some individual likes and dislikes which we respect , then we have spousal likes and dislikes and then we have family likes and dislikes , if any of those overlap each other then we vote , nobody has the right to veto any majority decision.
I think if each family and couple work this way then there will be no issues and each family will live happily ever after the marriage.
Stopped wandering off to places alone, now I always have company.
Stopped eating alone.
Began to spend more time thinking about appearnaces. When single I could not care how rough I was or whatever but these days I have to make sure I please the Missus and do not act like such a savage.
I also started to do a lot more shopping and I’m still a bit annoyed that it takes so long
Oh and finally I had to get a bigger car a people carrier at that and I now drive like a grandad.
become sooo much more mature and a little serious as compared to the hyper carefree self I was, also i'm a lot less louder...maybe it's not marriage, it's age! However I've grown so much more in confidence...way more responsible and a little OCD with cleaning!!!
We aren't married yet but he stopped smoking, I started praying (we made a deal he stops smoking, something I was strict about, and I'll pray namaz). he now knows what NARS (Orgasm and deep throat had him baffled)/MAC is :D, he is a lot more open-minded and non-judgemental, I have slightly more desi tendencies now and my Urdu got better too.
LOL, yeah. He is so peeved by NARS and their attention-hungry names. He had to ask a salesgirl for them one time and was mortified. Although he isn’t closed off about sex or those things (at all), he was embarrassed when he had to ask.
Oh, I forgot to mention that I've become a lot more financially responsible now. I used to blow wads of cash on DVDs and Figures; that's all but stopped now. I will probably end up selling off most of my collections before my import arrives :-P
We aren't married yet but he stopped smoking, I started praying (we made a deal he stops smoking, something I was strict about, and I'll pray namaz). he now knows what NARS (Orgasm and deep throat had him baffled)/MAC is :D, he is a lot more open-minded and non-judgemental, I have slightly more desi tendencies now and my Urdu got better too.