tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?

[Paheli00]

Re: tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?

@Sehrysh

Telling or not telling him how much you make won’t make a difference. Giving him access to the money will. **You have control over how the money is spent **- set a budget and don’t give in to him if he makes unreasonable demands.

:k: True. Telling him the amount does equal access to the money.

OP can continue to refuse to share how much she has which will continue to make her husband resentful and will lead to arguments. If she tells him how much she makes but refuses to grant him access, that will also lead to resentment on his part/arguments. Neither option contributes to making this marriage healthy. So this is really a matter of choosing the option OP views as the lesser of evils.