Re: tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?
NONE of us can tell you whether or not its a “right” decision. But based on the information I gave you on the 1st page, it should be obvious to you that in the event of a divorce, he WILL find out all your financial information. Same if he starts working and you two file joint tax returns.
So now that you already know that you cannot hide you assets from him during a divorce…why don’t you ask yourself what benefit do you gain by not telling him. And ask yourself how you plan on hiding your income once he gets a job (ie. tax filing).
At the end, its YOU who needs to decide whether or not refusing to share this is what’s best for YOUR marriage.