tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?

[Paheli00]

Re: tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?

@cpa2011

He doesnt ask me to make him breakfast in the morning, and I dont have to iron his clothing. If there are days Im busy and don’t have time to clean the apartment, he doesnt mind. After our nikka he got me a gold set. He is book and street smart. I havent seen him with children so I can’t say. When I first started cooking making roti, I set off the fire alarm (because of like smoke, not because I burned anything) and he laughed, ( some husbands get angry if the girls are not good cooks) but he was ok with it, and he complements me if I do cook something well.

Im not really sure what your looking for answer wise, but this is what I could think of.

Well…since he doesn’t have a job and I assume he’s not attending classes/school…why doesn’t he do ALL the cooking on the weekdays? Do you think he’s being a good husband by asking you to cook biryani after you come home from work at 9? Its great that you spend 2 hours making biryani/raita in consideration of his feelings…but how considerate is HE of YOUR feelings if he’s asking you to make it in the 1st place after you’ve been at work all day? Shouldn’t he have something for YOU to eat when you come home after working all day long?

You wrote you do “all the house work”. Why? If he’s a loving/caring husband…why doesn’t he do the dishes, laundry, and general cleaning? What does he do all day that prevents him from doing the house work while you’re at work? In fact…seriously…what exactly does he do all day long…every single day?

You wrote that you “KNOW” that he will go on a shopping spree if he knew how much you made or had a credit card. The fact that you’re saying that you KNOW that you cannot depend on him to control his urge to spend money even though he doesn’t have a job…you don’t think that right there shows what type of husband he is?

BTW, how long has it been since he came to the U.S.?