tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?

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Re: tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?

@Sasha21

I think only CPA can gauge her husband the best cuz she’s the one living with him and knows the most about it. We can just give her different perspectives but in the end ofcourse she is going to do what makes sense in her situation. How I see it is that the husband probably has potential in him (since CPA saw he’s street and book smart) so I’m guessing he’s probably not a bum. But the situation he’s in, could be its making him feel really useless, out of his control and emasculating (cuz CPAs doing all the breadwinning). Maybe he’s just trying to feel more accomplished without the embarrassment of doing a menial job. Coming from Pakistan, and being in a marital home and not a student setup, I think maybe hubby thinks it would be even more embarrassing (than sitting at home) if he was working somewhereflippinh burgers or at a cash register when he is well qualified (Im assuming) and came from an upper middle class background.

He is a guy and he needs to know his responsibilities. 1 of my friends is making really low income and her husband is making exceptionally well income but he still forces her to contribute every penny of it because he knows what she is making. He doesn’t want her to have anything… OP should not expose income to her husband… She can help him if she wants to but not tell him what she earns.