Re: tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?
^This!!! Treating children as the “solution” to a troubled marriage is terribly unfair to the children. Not only that, but having children in the hope that they bring about some sort of change in your husband is quite a huge and extremely ill advised gamble. What if being a father and having children have no effect on the guy and he doesn’t change? (And yes, there are men like that.) Then what?