tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?

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Re: tell husband how much savings you have? what your salary is?

@cpa2011

Hey,

does anyone here hide how much savings/salary they have? I ask because my husband keeps on randomly asking to see my paycheck/know my salary/see my bank balances. I never show him as, a) I feel like since he doesnt contribute anything, and isnt working. why should I tell him. b) I feel like once he knows how much I earn, he will get an idea of howmuch i save, how much i have in savings, and incase something happens between us, I will end up having difficulty protecting my assets. c) on multiple occations, during arguements, he has said "ill take 50% of everything you have. and has said Inshalla we will divorce/Ill leave you.d) he keeps on demanding I forgive his haq mahar.

I know its pretty toxic relationship, so just wanted some feedback, if I am doing the right thing by not showing him my finances. I feel like with all this going on, I would be dumb to show him my earnings. But then I was thinking in the future, when he earns and we file joint tax returns, he will see what I make anyway.

i read your comments and realized my advice is useless since you aren’t listening anyways.