I think you have a point but having hard time describing it.
So here is a different take on what you are trying to say.
- Pakistan (like Many countries) have its share of extremists.
----- True
- Then you assert that "Pakistan's extremists are exaggerated".
---- That's true but the rationale you may give (or have in your mind) for this exaggeration is faulty.
Perhaps there is a point number 3.
- The extremism in Pakistan gets exaggerated, because the peaceful part of Pakistanis do not express themselves fully.
In other words, extremists are doing their job like extremists do.
However
Are the peaceful Pakistanis are doing their job of presenting Pakistan as a fun loving, peaceful place where anyone of any color, race, or religion is welcome.
People can have their food the way they like, and drink whatever they like as long as they do not hurt other Pakistanis or fellow travelers.
May be then as Paks, we should start looking at and questioning the non-extremists Pakistanis and ask "What have you done lately to create a positive, friendly, humble, image of Pakistan"?
For example,
Rio has more shanty towns and in much worse crime condition than Karachi.
And Still,
People salivate with the thought of going to Rio for vacation,
But the same is not true for Karachi.
So perhaps we should not blame the poor and the criminals of Karachi.
Instead the
blame goes to the educated elite of Karachi that they utterly failed to make Karachi a 100 times better destination compared to Rio for tourism and trade.
Burqa,
Rio has been a tourist destination for decades, Karachi never was. Part of this is due to the Latin culture, which has a host festivals and is an interesting mix of southern European, indigenous and African. Goa has the same mix in Asia. The infrastructure in Latin America is much better, having been to Mexico, trust me there roads put us or for that matter the Indians to shame.
Pakistanis are simply not "party animals". Secondly, the Pakistan government is not interested in foreign investment, perhaps with the exception of the Ayoub and Musharaf periods. Pakistani diplomatic missions overseas are a joke. Things might start changing if the Pakistan elite have a change of heart. But until they get their free money from the Yanks, nothing is happening.
A question for the Indians, if Pakistan invited Indian investors, would they come.