I just wanted a guy’s take on this but girls are welcome to answer also.
I’m actually a tall girl around 5’9-5’10 and I love wearing heels. They just make me feel nice and i dont usually care about what others think. But recently i’ve started to feel a bit conscious, i feel like people (in my college) see me as arrogant or just flaunt and i’m not like that.
I feel like the guys I know seem intimidated or just turned off. I’ve never asked them but it’s just i get this feeling which makes me feel conscious of myself.
So from a guys perspective, would you be turned-off or intimidated by a talk girls wearing heels around 2-3 inches not more. And would you be okay with marrying a girl whose as tall and wears heels? does it seem like she’s arrogant?
guys take? maaaan i may not be the most objective person to give you advise on this
Tall girls in heels...hubba hubba, always very attracted to them, my biggest weakness.
but i guess being 6'3" it worked well to have them closer to eye level or easily able to put hand around waist
or if she needed to just rest her head on my shoulder while taking a stroll it would be shoulder, not biceps etc.
I'm tall and my husband is very slightly taller than me. I personally am not a big wearer of heels, but husband wants me to wear them. Even super long ones. He has no issues with me looking taller next to him, so I think it depends on the guy and how comfortable he is with himself.
It depends on the guy, how tall he is and how self-conscious he is of his height. There is no standard answer.
^ This. I know a few tall girls (5'6 and above) who wear heels on a regular basis but the men they're with are all several inches taller than them. So even with heels, the girls are still shorter OR the same height as the men.
Embrace your height. Don't be ashamed of it based on what others around you think.
I'm just under 5'9" without heels and now I wear heels all the time. I don't care about what anybody thinks. If it makes me feel good, then I will wear them proudly! :D
I feel self-conscious too (I'm not even 5'9'')........that is the main reason I don't wear heels. I don't feel like I'm being judged as arrogant and such per say, I just feel like I'm towering over everyone which is uncomfortable.
Then again, it seems like I am surrounded by 'short' people all or most of the the time.............
I feel self-conscious too (I'm not even 5'9'')........that is the main reason I don't wear heels. I don't feel like I'm being judged as arrogant and such per say, I just feel like I'm towering over everyone which is uncomfortable.
Then again, it seems like I am surrounded by 'short' people all or most of the the time.............
Oh n i was just thinking oh i am tall ok my cousn is 5’11 she once wore heel m other cousn made fun of her k tum kya asman pe badlo ko hath lagany ja rahi Ho uss k bad se bechari ne kabhie heel Nhi pheni but honestly Men our counsious especially after Shadi they dont like wifetaller than them my huby never stops me from wearing but when we go to parties he says mujhe se door rehna
I am not married, so husband looking shorter than me is not a problem (yet). But I have a different problem. My sister is shorter than me and she doesn't like wearing heels. I am 2 inches taller and I love wearing tall heels. So whenever we go to social events, she tells me to wear flats to be considerate. She is older so I have to listen to her. Also, all my friends are shorter than me, so even though I continue to wear heels, I feel awkward in pics as I'm always towering over everyone else.
I don't think wearing heels makes one arrogant or self-absorbed. There has to be more to it, like a person's personality or their attitude toward others.
Personally, I love tall girls. However, it needs to be proportionate with the guy. At your height you're probably taller then most Desi guys. Wearing heels would not look proportionate.
^The thing is the college I go to, most guys are short anyways. They're around 5'6 or 5'7, especially the desi guys. And i'm not with anyone so does being proportionate to a guy matter.
Like I see white girls wearing heels all the tme and it's completely fine, but brown girls are judged on a different scale I guess.
i know someone who is 5'9 and she wears high heels. she does tower over most people but she looks really sexy with her bf who is well over 6 feet tall.
…girls are so much taller these days than they used to be, no?
