talking to ur fiance about private stuff

[sagittarian]

Re: talking to ur fiance about private stuff

@Qabil

1. Discuss it only if you yourself are against the idea of having a baby (or two) in the first year (or two). If you have no problem with it, just let it be.

2. DON’T. Just don’t talk about physical intimacy to a man who is not yet your husband. Even if he starts such a topic, be up front and tell him - in clear but not harsh words - that you don’t consider it appropriate before Nikah. Take my word: talking and planning beforehand in this regard just can’t do any good.

^ I second that… further imo u don’t have to go to any gynae or take any pill kinda stuff right before marriage.. Its very rare getting pregnant just the day u married.. U can discuss about contraception thing once he become ur husband..don’t b stressful abt it.. Good luck