We’ve all heard of the phrase “Im not much of a talker..” but then the same person can go on with NO end!
There’s one category of such talkers, that talk a lot but they’re sensible and entertaining and with them time flies! You glance at u’re fone and realize it’s been 2 hours!
Then there’s the “I..me, myself” kinds that burry u under experiences and stories that are never-ending and extremely boring, such people annoy most crowds and if u try and convince them otherwise or dare to disagree they pounce on u! (It’s only when they leave that u breathe and sigh and say.. I wish they wud just blog!)
Then there are the venters.. who usually don’t talk much but they prove to be great listeners who can be identified by “ahan, sahi and acha?” they speak when something’s bothering them and they just have to get it out of their system…
I think I am not much of a talker. I dont like to brag about myself, but I can carry interesting conversations involving incidents in my life, things that happened with me, I listen to others well so I'm certainly supportive of people. So far in my life, I have never heard from anyone that I talk too much or I dont have anything sensible to say, I always tell myself to focus on what others have to say, my friends love me for my listening ability.
Best of all, I dont like to talk about myself much.
I think a talker CAN only talk when some one is "willing" to listen.
IF no one intend to listen then, talker has to get it out of system and to person he/she want to listen.
just my 2 cents.
I think
I am catogory
3= 70%
1= 30% I only talk over the phone if I really like the person.
I guess I'm one to "let my fingers do the talking" lol....I'm actually a very reserved, shy and quiet person in person. On GS, I'm a gab-a-holic...my posts are usually really long and I have lots of things to say. Put me in front of actual people and I clam up.
Something that annoys me about talkers...when they have decided (finally) that its time to go home, they get up and make some preparations to actually leave...but its a 2 hour long process. ack that drives me INSANE.
Then there are the venters.. who usually don't talk much but they prove to be great listeners who can be identified by "ahan, sahi and acha?" they speak when something's bothering them and they just have to get it out of their system...