Re: Swearing at in-laws
lol, the ones I tend to like are posts where I agree with parts of what has been posted, not necessarily all of what has been posted. I think the only time I have backtracked on a view I have expressed (and I have some strong views!) is when I suggested violence, which in hindsight, considering the world has has gone feminist beta crazy, wasn’t the best of ways to express my opinion. As far as being called crazy, meh, fine line between crazy and brilliant! Tis the beauty of life that people have different opinions.
Maybe my approach is a bit aggressive, ok scratch that, is definitely aggressive, but a softly softly approach doesn’t get you anywhere unless you’re a politician. The OP isn’t respected as evident by her husbands passive aggressive behavior. Me personally, I’m abrupt and to the point - sometimes to my detriment, but it is what it is. When I need to eat humble pie, I have no issue doing so.
The OP needs to do what she feels is best, carry on as is - grovelling to her husband for expressing an opinion or understand that as a human being, she has the right an opinion without having her head bitten off. There’s a reason why Islam advocates separate living quarters for your wife - one is that such scenarios as the OP don’t occur. There comes a time in a mans life that he has to cut the cord strings from his mama and papa, preferably before marriage. Any opinion shared between spouses that is private shouldn’t be bought up in conversation with a parent without explicit permission. Just my two cents! Each to their own!