Nobody has a problem with a guy wanting to take care of his mum.
Taking care of his mother doesn’t have to equal his wife moving into inlaws house and living in his childhood bedroom, having little or no privacy. Islam recommends us not living with inlaws unless they’re old/sick/lonely. Husband can move his parents in with him when they get old (being honest most parents are **not **elderly or sick when their sons are getting married) or live nearby. For some reason many desi men can’t seem to grasp the concept of actually having to move out of and provide a home for their families. Seriously, in nearly every other culture a man wouldn’t even be considered a real man if he wasn’t willing to move out of mummy and daddy’s house..
It’s funny I’ve noticed most of these guys who decide to stay with their parents after marriage in the UK who say they’re ‘looking after them’ it’s the new wife who is doing the housework etc. while they barely lift a finger. If the guy is working he usually contributes little or nothing to the mortgage (living rent or mortgage free of course a huge perk of staying with parents) so he can spend his earnings on a flash car. I see this all the time. If they really want to help the parents why is it they tend to hardly ever contribute to the bills or help with housework? Living that way is sponging off them, not looking after them.