sazzie
June 19, 2011, 8:40pm
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Sharabee Sharabee, when trying to provoke at least try and not be so obvious about it. If smeone’s staring at me I tend to feel a bit paranoid like ‘is there something on my face?!’ Once in Pakistan when being stared at by a gormless looking guy, I frowned furiously at him but sadly it had no effect whatsoever. Very disappointing.
sweefs
June 19, 2011, 8:40pm
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sometimes when i’m in a funny mood, i stare them out. and if i’m feeling really fiesty then i’ll kiss my teeth like a black girl and turn away.
other times i just continue doing what i was doing and think nothing of it.
Milly
June 19, 2011, 8:46pm
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Aw man, divn’t tell everyone me secret!
Milly
June 19, 2011, 8:48pm
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sharaabee:
If somebody is staring at you.. it means you are not being modest enough in your dressing and probably revealing too much skin. You should cover yourself up more.
According to some experts.. females who show off their skin are inviting rape .
OMG! If only women knew of this expert advice. You must, no, WE must share this knowledge to save rapes from taking place ever again.
I’l wear a hijab, you grow a beard…let’s spread it!
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Milly:
OMG! If only women knew of this expert advice. You must, no, WE must share this knowledge to save rapes from taking place ever again.
I’l wear a hijab, you grow a beard…let’s spread it!
It’s true woman. Big man in the sky has spoken. Cover yourself up. No skin. Baggy clothes. No make up..or else.. be prepared…
Re: suppose a guy is staring at you
sazzie:
Sharabee Sharabee, when trying to provoke at least try and not be so obvious about it. If smeone’s staring at me I tend to feel a bit paranoid like ‘is there something on my face?!’ Once in Pakistan when being stared at by a gormless looking guy, I frowned furiously at him but sadly it had no effect whatsoever. Very disappointing.
Hide your face then. Your lipstick turns them on. Burqa it up (That’s what He wants)
Re: suppose a guy is staring at you
I have so far never been out-stared. I pride myself on having a formidable glare that could literally put the fear of Hell in a person.
If someone was staring at me I would take the challenge and stare them down to the point tears well up in thier eyes and they beg for mercy as they bow thier head in defeat.
TLK
June 19, 2011, 9:28pm
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Mashallah, I could’nt have said it better.
Re: suppose a guy is staring at you
Better to Recite Ayat-al-kursi and move/change your place in order to make it difficult for him to stare at you.
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Crime_Master_GOGO:
They usually stare when they see something decorated/deliciously presented that looks temptingly tasty and ignites their hunger so that they may look at it with hasrat (unless they are super desperate). I am not justifying their actions as they would be punished for their sin of staring. The one who is being stared at would be punished if s/he gave him the opportunity by not hiding her “satar” properly and instead tried to show herself as a sexual object through tight/thin/exposing clothes.
^ It is a general example, not directed to anyone in particular on any forum.
Better to Recite Ayat-al-kursi and move/change your place in order to make it difficult for him to stare at you.
p.s. Consult an aalim/aalima respectively for knowing how the prophet (saw) defined “Satar” for men and women respectively.
hahahah !!
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^ Of course I was mentioning the sick people who have the habbit of staring. I edited it because I knew it would be misunderstood.
TLK
June 19, 2011, 9:44pm
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TLK >>>
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Sharrabee
Please stay on topic or take your debate to Religion Forum.
Aap kay ta’vun ka shukriya.
Re: suppose a guy is staring at you
I recently gave a really weirded out look to the guy… but it backfired. He continued to stare.
Re: suppose a guy is staring at you
ignore .. but if there still staring then give them the daggers ..
Re: suppose a guy is staring at you
sharaabee:
**If somebody is staring at you.. it means you are not being modest enough in your dressing and probably revealing too much skin. **You should cover yourself up more.
According to some experts.. females who show off their skin are inviting rape.
Yeah, cos women never get stared at when they’re covered up, do they
S02
June 19, 2011, 11:31pm
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sharaabee:
If somebody is staring at you.. it means you are not being modest enough in your dressing and probably revealing too much skin. You should cover yourself up more.
According to some experts.. females who show off their skin are inviting rape.
Best way to prevent rape:
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You’re a woman? =\
And wow looks like we have a lot of hot women in life 1
Re: suppose a guy is staring at you
I don’t remember ever being stared at here in Canada. I do remember a few incidents in Pakistan when I was last there. My mom gave the man a dirty look and asked him what he wanted. He disappeared and we never saw him again. This was in the waiting lounge at Islamabad airport sadly.
Oh, right the question was what would i do? I would probably ignore and move/turn around. If I’m not in a good mood probably tell him off.
Re: suppose a guy is staring at you
i stare back and wink and blow a kiss.