Super-helpful or controlling?

[angel25]

Re: Super-helpful or controlling?

@Meenu16

They have been like this from the very beginning, even before i was pregnant FIL would cut me fruit, cut the onions and tomatoes for me when i was cooking, arrange my fridge mop my floors, do the laundry etc its like they want to take over i can do all those things by myself perfectly well. In the beginning it was just awkward but I was respectful thanked and thanked him but now it’s getting too much I want to feel independent in my own house like I’ve always been. I want to be able to do things on my own pace by my own choice i think i deserve my own space as a wife. i want to get up when i want clean when i want cook when i want and be able to go out and take a walk when i want. its sooooooo difficult living with them. I am not saying I don’t want them to be a part of our life but not so much to the point where it is uncomfortable for me. Maybe I am not used to so much involvement, my parents are not like that at all.

You are very lucky. My in laws never help me in any house work and sometimes I use to get so tired all day cooking, cleaning and doing grocery shopping .

U are very lucky. be thankful to them and take care of them.

I know every women want to set their house their way but dear that’s their house too so they have the right too.