yes it is quite easy for me to forgive and forget other's mistakes but if anyone despite after forgiving constantly keeps annoying me then i at one time strogly react and counter attack on the opponent. but yes i do forgive 3 times and after that i deal other's in their own language which they understand
its same with me. i mostly ignore things 3 times.after that the other person gets on either my revenge list or cut off all ties list :)
strange Kinzz i was thinking same thing today.i feel with age i find it hard to forgive.unfortunately i've started to keep grudges.n i was thinking today how a person can get more forgiving? may be this is a kind of pride n we should pray more so Allah can soften our hearts n make it easy for us to forgive others.