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By The Way It Was My Birthday On June The 21st Not That I Celebrate Them.......im 18 Now!!!! Alhamdulilallah
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well how would mommy feel if her kid committed some other haram deed(like robbery or talking to namehram girls)…same thing for suicide..
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lussi fine difference and i think we are going in circles here, its disrespectful to badmouth the deceased. Comitting haram he stills says muslim, now correct me if i am wrong but in islam when one dies he shouldnt be talked about in awful manner. And whats with "hate"? he comitted a sin how many of you havent? All you are doing by declaring your righteous hate is hurt the people who are already suffering due to his "sin".
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Peoples do suicide cause they find that this is end of world there is no end of their probelms sometimes there is some genes problem in person that is result of suicide, social setup and family dispute is also one of cause in pak,
peoples do are reserved for hate go behind the reasons why they do? suicide is not easy to do. It's happened after hard steps. some dispute can be solve but family and ppl gave so much pain it is unbearable to hold it.
most of most of ppl do suicide they are depressed, according to my reasearch only 30% of depressed ppl get the help that they need. In Pak it is very less. cause trained psychiatrist are very few in pakistan. and most peoples can't reach to them.
Please don't say suicidal are bad peoples first know what is depression & suicide then ask them help from your side. HELP them to save life. They need your help not your bad words or unless talks they just need help and love. Pakistan need most of all there are many ppl who are depressed but can't reach to us.
By way I am depressed too Is there is any body to help me?
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A friend of mines mother committed suicide after problems with her husband...like most people have pointed out...it was a last resort...she didnt see things working out and was becoming more and more unhappy to the point of suicide...he disliked his mother for a while but at the end of the day he and i cant understand what it must have been like to be that unhappy...its easy to point out the Islamic opinion but its unlikely that these people are in a fit state where this matters...
its easy for me to say i will never commit suicide becuase i know i will go to hell but iv never been in a bad mindstate...a guy from our masjid committed suicide and along with those who had sympathy you get the Islamic crew who just hate and criticise...
we'll never understand that mindstate unless we too face suicide so if you really want to know ask those who tried and failed cos theres no real answer for you...
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As many of you have already stated, people who commit suicide are emotionally imbalanced, and are not thinking straight when they commit the act. And to those of you who have known someone who committed suicide(the stories I read here), be glad that they were depressed enough to only kill themself. It could've been much worse.
A very close family friend of my parents(my parents knew the couple for almost 18 years) committed suicide several years ago...we discovered afterwards that he had been having a lot of financial problem which was also putting a lot of pressure on his marriage. Here's what happened that day(btw, his wife told my parents this months after it actually happend)....she came out of the shower in the morning and saw him just sitting in the living room....then she noticed a gun in his hand....she of course freaked out and immediately ran to their sons room....there she found her 2 sons....ages 6 and 9....shot in the head...already dead....she ran back in the living room....and that's when the husband shot himself in the head in front of her. Forget growing up without a father.....these two boys weren't even given the chance to grow up at all.
To those of you who keep going on and on about being left behind to deal with the loss of that one person.......believe me, the scenario could've been worse.....