why do people commit suicide…
i hate them who do
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Before you hate people you don't understand, then why don't you try to research the topic a bit, and meet some people who tried to commit suicide, and then try to understand them (run-on sentence, but whatever)
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People commit suicide for a number of reasons, some because they feel that death is the best state of being for them.
People kill themselve to preserve their and there families honour like in India, paks and places like Japan.
because they are severely depressed or have reached a point or situation that they see no way out of.
Huge no of reasons but basically boils down to very unhappy people feeling its the right thing to do.
I dont think they deserve your hate.
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arfaz, welcome to GS…and stop feeling so down already…
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people who commit suicide leave a lot of questions unanswered. why they did that ll be the first question. and most of the time we wonder without any answers. and how much ever u research... the result will tel u its because of some sort of failure. and it was that purticular moment that tempted them to take the X-treem step. if they had a word with any one, they might not have done that. its just that they may be feelin alone 'n no one to talk .
but if they do talk openly to someone this w'd 'nt happen, wat do u say....
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last week,in our apprtmnt, a guy of 22 yrs committed suicide.
but he was a very happy guy, i knew this guy very well. we work in the same office, no one thought he woud do so. he was the only money earner for his family. and he just killed himself, leaving his mom, and 2 sis alone in the dark.
the reason cud be some stupid fight with his galfriend.
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^ don't speculate.
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People have their reasons. Let me tell you what I know.
1- One student in our University committed suicide because he was unhappy with one of the professors. He gathered all the students in the hostel in the mess hall, gave a speech against the professsor and killed himself by shooting a bullet in his head.
2- A distant relative committed suicide because he was going on a date and his younger brother took the car out without him knowing. In his anger, he locked himself in his room and shot himself in head but managed to live for a while. He asked his mother to take him to the doctor.
3- A colleague of mine committed suicide from jumping from the window of his apartment on the 8th floor. His long time beloved fell in love with another guy. One night before that, he was lamenting how all girls are bitches and how his girlfriend is the biggest.
4- A friend of mine was close to committing, as he became a drunk after two of his consecutive girlfriends left him hanging in the middle. A renewed interest in his job because of his new position saved him.
IMmostHO mostly males commit suicide because of females' rejection and females commit because of fear of humiliation......
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the reason cud be some stupid fight with his galfriend.
COULD BE is the key word. Like I said, don't speculate.
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i belive the only think we can do is speculate.
or
is the dead gonna come 'n tel u why he/she did that?
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arfaz i can see you are troubled but tell me this; how do feel hating people who are dead? dont throw away sentences like that. May be it is momentarily weakness or stress taking toll but its rather disrespectful talking about a deceased guy in that manner.
You feel like you know the person but alot of people can keep up a personality, only Allah knows.
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I think hate is a strong word to use, maybe it is just that you have a hard time understanding why a person would do something as drastic as taking their life. Anyone who has never been in that position really would have a hard time understanding and dealing with it.
We all hide things, we hide hurt and we hide when we fail. People continplating suicide hide quite a bit, enough so that a lot of others are surprised and you always hear, he seemed fine, etc.
In my opinion, it seems so selfish to do something like that. You are so focused on your problems, the things affecting you, and how badly you feel, that you forget that your family and friends would miss you. Killing yourself leaves chaos behind you and leaves a lot of guilt and anger for people to deal with.
My sisters husband committed suicide and his 3, almost 4 yr old daughter found him. It devastated that girl and she still remembers it. There was a LOT of anger and depression of her own to deal with right up to this day and she is 18. Those of us outside the immediate family had a hard time dealing with our anger (how could he do that, why did he in a place where his kids would find him, kids without a father, no husband for my sister) and, yeah, while it was new, we hated him for a while. But you come to a realization eventually that they don't deserve hate, but pity because they are missing out on everything that is happening now.
But people are just a very complex balance of chemicals and electricity, sometimes even the slightest imbalance to your brain chemistry can make you do things totally out of character.
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it is infact an evil to SUICIDE
the point being, the person dead is escaping from what ever tuff time he was goin through, but he is not thinkin of those people who are living for him(like his parents).
if he can die for himself why cant he live for others.
life is not a bed of roses
the person who does'nt have the gutts to face the life..... i hate 'em
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^ 
grow up
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that was indeed a grown up one, was’nt it?
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or was it?
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i bet it was!#$@*&%
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i bet that was on your mind all along, now that its off you can sleep tight.
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oops! u got it wrong this time buddy
its not the time to sleep, its time raise 'n shine
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