suicide attempts..

u ever thought of it?? if yes…then why??
ever known any people who commited suicide…aur a failed suicide attempt..

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Nope. Nope. Nope.

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umm yh tried it was long back..although looking back i dun really knw if i was trying to see my limits or really wanted to kill myself..it was cuz i was going through a rough patch in life..came out a stronger person..if i could come out of it ANYONE can, hang in dere!

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Hopefully this question (is not in any way) related to your personal situation (being forced to marry your cousin). Hopefully you haven't given up and aren't looking at such extreme measures. Talk to the guy......and be direct with him. And if he STILL pushes the rishta.......either he's mentally impaired.......or doesn't have the balls to stand up to the parents and put an end to this mess..........or he's egotistical/selfish and can't take no for an answer.

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no nahi kee

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im not so sure rv...im just loosing all hope...and i dnt see another way out..im hating myself for being such a coward.

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umeed ka daman nahin chortay lost angel yeh soochain keh aap kitnay loogoon say behtar hain

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lost :eek:

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hang in there :smack: not really good advice :stuck_out_tongue:

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^:cb:

To OP: No, no and no. No difficulty in life is worth taking your life over, be a fighter … things will improve soon.

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Don't do it... people who committ suicide go to hell in Islam don't they??

Besides the horror of that thought, your life will get better. You do NOT have to marry the cousin. You've got to appeal to teh cousin and if he is still to prideful to end the engagement then you need to run away from your family. Its the only option. If your family is that selfish as to force you to marry someone and a cousin at that, they don't deserve you or your love.

I wish you the best of luck.

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i had a friend who came to school once with cuts all over her arms, her boyfriend ditched her so she slit em with a blade this was fairly recent, later i found out that the bf used to subject her to both verbal and physical abuse, and the nutter still wanted to die for him :hoonh:

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no i have never, and you shouldnt either!

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2 times.

Won't ever do it again. I hope.

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A cousin of mine committed suicide last year. PLEASE DONT EVEN CONSIDER IT. I still get tears in my eyes when i recall the look on his fathers face the night it happened. It destroys your family , trust me , my cousins family is still so miserable. You may think that what you are going through will never end , but it will.

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C'mon LA. Don't lose hope. You'd be really hurting your family if you took this route, it's a very selfish thing to do....not to mention a gunnah as well. This cousin of your and his parents..........are SOOOOOO NOT worth you ending your life.

You're a smart girl...you KNOW what you're supposed to do. You're just afraid to do it because you fear the awkwardness. And it is a sticky situation (no denying that).....but it need not be a permanent one. You can get yourself out of this.

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No. No. Yes.

It's haunting...knowing that those people took their lives as they felt they had no way out...no other option....and i couldn't help.

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You've talked to your parents, they're not budging. Next step: Talk to the guy (more forcefully).

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yes, no, no.

I cry when I stub a toe.....erm suicide isn't gonna happen any time soon.

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LA...if you can think of three things positive about your life...just three things...its not as bad as it seems. They can be anything...but look for three positive things about your life, this situation, etc.

What if you took a stand LA and things got better?

What if tomorrow it all got better?