well not exactly paranoid, but what everyone is saying (how it doesnt happen etc) is just hard to believe cuz my mom & .. family etc. ALL follow this stupid effing ritual. and FOR ME its scary cuz i broke my hymen when i was 13 from bikeriding.. idk. neva told anyone.. & now im gettin married soon InshAllah. my family has brainwashed me (always) abt this “blood checking custom” in my head. 