Suhaag Raat Hai

Afridi786 · June 6, 2006, 1:13am

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what did anil do?

Anil_Khan · June 6, 2006, 1:15am

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What have I done?

system · June 6, 2006, 1:18am

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no bro his kind deserve nothing more then handing over their testikils in their palm and spend their life like a ghusras.

Afridi786 · June 6, 2006, 1:18am

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Well, sometimes the assumption might be right...not with me tho...if my future wife looks forward to it and enjoys it..I'll take it as a compliment...:D...and I'll hope to Allah swt that I didnt get married to a ****...:D

sonia123 · June 6, 2006, 1:18am

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yea wat did he do??

Sara516 · June 6, 2006, 1:24am

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Do you guys believe in making a mistake?

Its very likely that someone engages in sex or drinking or weed or any other typical activity, and then stop because they realized how bad it was and they regret it very much. In that case they ask for forgiveness from Allah, as long as they make a sincere attempt to change their ways. But, and I think this is where many people go wrong, the’re not supposed to advertise their own sins. What you’ll c lots of ppl doing is that they say “oh i used to sleep with so many girls, but i’m very clean now, I repented etc etc.”..

Just generally speaking here, not referring to anyone specifically, thought I’d point it out thats all.

Rosemarina · June 6, 2006, 1:25am

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He comes here and begins criticizing the next person from the off for a start...and committing a sin does not make one a kafir for the rest of their days, for Allah (swt) is merciful.

S02 · June 6, 2006, 1:27am

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The same could be true of the female, Sara. She may have made mistakes and repented, but thanks to the thinking in some of the posts above, she may well be ignored as a virtuous woman while the guy gets plenty of “second chances.”

Anil_Khan · June 6, 2006, 1:28am

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^ Such poor grammer (rosemarina).

Anyway, Allah (swt) is merciful and if he's truly sorry for his actions then he will be forgiven.

Sara516 · June 6, 2006, 1:29am

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^ I was speaking for both genders Sahar. Of course, even women who will NOT get physical with a guy are still looked down upon , if you read Zapp’s second post, so how can you expect anyone to look at a woman whos totally repented as anything mroe than a slut

Rosemarina · June 6, 2006, 1:30am

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BTW your journal sux.

S02 · June 6, 2006, 1:31am

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Sara: Yeah. Alas. I hope some life experience will open up some of these closed minds.

Anil_Khan · June 6, 2006, 1:34am

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Oh please, please don’t attack my journal, pretty please. :sarcasm: (if you’re too stupid to understand).

Rosemarina · June 6, 2006, 1:37am

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Stupid. Nah! ...my name isn't Anil Khan.

Anil_Khan · June 6, 2006, 1:38am

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^ You wish it were. There is only one Aneel Khan, by the grace of Allah.

Zapp · June 6, 2006, 1:38am

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I'll admit im a sinner and havent repented yet.

But when the time comes to settle down i will do.

Zapp · June 6, 2006, 1:41am

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Sara516:

^ hahaha

Yeah getting back to ur question.. Since you’ve already had ur fun, i suggest letting her take a bit of control for that first time. If she feels comfortable, go for it, if she resists, be respectful of her shyness and don’t rush it. Do not be like some guys who get so frustrated that they don’t care about her feelings and enjoyment and just do it to get it over with. I’ve heard several instances of this happening, the guy will literally force it the first few times. :no:

Much of Pakistani society conditions women to be “pure” i.e., keeping them separate from boys in school, no formal sex education other than pornography or friends or hearsay (that I know of anyway).. and the second they get married they’re expected to have sex and enjoy it. Not to mention if a woman appears to enjoy anything or look forward to it, the guy MIGHT assume she’s had experience before. Its really wrong and twisted but unfortunately true..

I really think girls in Pakistan should be taught a bit more about sex. When things arent discussed in the open, they get driven “underground” and become kind of seedy.

They seriously need to be educated on stuff like contraception, birth control etc.

Afridi786 · June 6, 2006, 1:45am

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dude, there r muslims on this forum.

system · June 6, 2006, 1:47am

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sara nothing justifies to have (not using that word)before marriage,it doesn,t matter what execuse you have …you did something haraam, it is the biggest sin in islam after not being muslim…:o i don,t know of other people but i hardly have talk to any larki between age of 15/30 for past 5 years not that i don,t want or like but cuz i know that can lead to sins,it is really hard you know when half naked women are hanging on huge billbaords and on every bus station, everywhere you see people are kissing or doing shameful acts:mad: but alhamdulillah till now god has saved me from anything in that direction and hopefully till i get married:blush: .

Zapp · June 6, 2006, 1:48am

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What i am planning to do on the first night is a bit of foreplay. Gentle kissing and cuddling, and if she feels comfortable with that i might utilise my fingers .

I would definately get her on a birth control pills before intercourse. You know what they say, once you go bareback…