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Sweetheart, I wrote a long reply for you which answers your concerns but then that would be discussing my personal life in here. Whoever he was, he claimed to be ‘in love’ with me so I’ll try not to discuss what made me change my opinion cz it would disclose things about him in public and spoil his chances of getting a match (
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PM me sweety, I’ll explain what Im talking about.
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People this thread has gotten way out of control!
To all the people who think this is a flame, i can honestly say i was being serious with my first question. After that things just spiralled out of control, and maybe i did say a few things that were , umm , inappropriate.
Having read this thread through again i just want to make a few things clear. I am not as bad as i come across. Things have been slightly exagerated in the way people have reacted. Alot of the sinful acts i have done and regret are mostly in the past. Im not trying to say im clean-cut, just the fact that i have calmed down considerably. Even in may hayday i was running at about 50% of what some of the Pakis around here get upto.
My reason for wanting to marry a Paki based girls is not because of my dislike for western girls. Like i said earlier i would have liked to have gotten married in the UK a few years back. All the stuff about being a virgin etc. didnt really bother me, as long as i found the right girl and we loved each other. But certain things happened that made my feelings change.
I do apologise to anyone who was offended by me. I guess the clashing of two different cultures has caused confusion in not only me, but probably alot of other western desis.
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mywish kambhaat job pe sab kuch block hai warna yaha pe - painduyo ki nagri mein kis ko ane ka shooq hai? har waqt bauk bauk karti hon idhar ...
bigmouth- we all have past and to be honest not interested in knowing someone else's past i got enough crap to take care of on my own. I don't mind hearing what people have to say i am always all ears.
but whatever... it didnt take me a long time to write that reply :p
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Nia, tum nai kabhee koftun ki recipe try kee?
P.S aaj shaam ka kia program hai?
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mywish mere sath date pe chalna hai ? i will kook chicken keeme ke koftey for you....
how is that ? we can go in central park have our picnic thing as well
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Hum virtual date set kar laitay hayn. Lekin keema kofta sounds nice, dhl kar dau.
P.s Tum nai konsay kapray pehnay hon gai?
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To all the people who think this is a flame, i can honestly say i was being serious with my first question. After that things just spiralled out of control, and maybe i did say a few things that were , umm , inappropriate.
Having read this thread through again i just want to make a few things clear. I am not as bad as i come across. Things have been slightly exagerated in the way people have reacted. Alot of the sinful acts i have done and regret are mostly in the past. Im not trying to say im clean-cut, just the fact that i have calmed down considerably. Even in may hayday i was running at about 50% of what some of the Pakis around here get upto.
My reason for wanting to marry a Paki based girls is not because of my dislike for western girls. Like i said earlier i would have liked to have gotten married in the UK a few years back. All the stuff about being a virgin etc. didnt really bother me, as long as i found the right girl and we loved each other. But certain things happened that made my feelings change.
I do apologise to anyone who was offended by me. I guess the clashing of two different cultures has caused confusion in not only me, but probably alot of other western desis.
you're atleast as honest as they come. even if that means you admit ur being a hypocrite about guys sleeping ard and girls sleeping ard not being equal. lemme tell u but, that kind of thinking is simply retarded.
hey u know what, no one here has the right to pass judgements about you.
and i don't know what ur doing posting stuff here so that others can discuss you and ur life like nobody's business.
btb wth are u so worried about the suhaag raat now, ur all of 21, give it a rest dude, one would've thought u'd have other stuff to worry about.
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darn i need a summary on this thread. HAHHAHA @ the thread till i read :).
i m sure you will find a gal from Pak who would agree to marry u happily even after knowing ur pass inorder to just to get to UK. Anyway i dont have any answers to ur ignorant q's.
Lucky u today zapp as i m totally not in a mood to argue.
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your basis for this belief?
What is he going to do? Not talk about his past for the rest of his life? You knwo thats not gonna happen.56
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i will wear red kinari wala kurta looking just like a bride only for you love…
dhl - kofte hain sandwich nahe 
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Originally Posted by AnGeL EyEs
actually from an Islamic perspective…once someone has repented sincerely and asked Allah (SWT) for forgiveness and does not repeat that sin again…that person DOES NOT have to reveal his past sin to anyone. It’s between him and ALLAH (SWT) and no one else.
Well, the reason behind “not to advertise one’s sins” is that when others who have also committed such sins or are prone to, wud go, “Oh thank GOd, I’m not alone”. So it kinda encourages others. That’s why it’s recommended not to reveal yours or even others’ sins. There are several ahadith and even references in Quran about it. However, the poster here to begin with very proudly announced his wrong acts (thinking everyone wud go, hay man, how many have u done? wow, u rock!), then he also said repeatedly that he hasn’t repented yet, meaning he’s not done yet, so … Whatever!
But if one gets innocent now by acknowledging the wrongs and repenting one’s sins, then there can be a girl exactly like that, repented, and thus innocent gal now! Usually such ppl keep on boasting abt their past the same way as he has done here and PK women take that crap, since they don’t want to create problems in the fmaily or go back to their parents’ after divorce. I heard one PK aunty (educated and residing in US) talking to a woman whose hubby was found flirting with another gal… oh saray Mard eisay hee hotay hein. they need lit’l bit of flirt to boost their ego, don’t worry, he still loves you" 
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Thats why i said theres no need to advertise or tell the whole khandan but the person marrying him has the RIGHT to know what shes getting...in this case sara howa apple.
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sharmatay nahi gul kar hanstay hein 
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Sharmanay wala icon aap ka hai, mera nahin. Ye lo 
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Okay fine. She knows about the 'sarra hua apple' as you say. So she is his 'wife' now and he has repented. His mind/heart is pure BUT his wife knows that he had a 'srra hua past. Fine... so who would be at loss? First the wife cz majority of 'naive' girls would NOT be 'happy' to know about that kind of past.
So the wife is bitter which makes the honest husband bitter which makes the home environment bitter which affects the children. Maybe the wife would not be able to keep it to herself? Maybe it will hurt her so much that she the husband's secrets are spilled out to the children? Then.....?? How will it affect them??? Where's the end to it??? Why not just keep the mouth shut about 'bad things'. Why is it so important for the wife to dig out such insignificant dirt??? What good will it do to her and then the relationship??? Why not let it rest as the husband is 'sharminda' of his deeds???
Some things are not worth knowing/talking. Get it?
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mein to mullah type ka larka hoon:o …muje to sharmana parta hai… issi liay meri ammi kehti hein putter tera nalu ta aj kal diyan kuriyan hoshiyar nai:mad: .
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Teh kuriyaan verga munda hoya na pher sada
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This thread has descended into a real farce. Its gone so far off topic its unreal. The point i wanted to discuss was about attitudes and feelings that people have of the “suhaag raat”. How would cultural differences affect what should happen? How would people act if one person was sexually active and the other wasnt. Stuff like that. That is the reason i said that i have already had sex. But intstead of just accepting that, people started to attack me 
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**I didnt want any advice for myself.
**Quite a few people on here are pretty uptight, and cannot even discuss something like this even though they would be doing so in anonimity .
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On that note, I believe it's best to close this thread. Zapp, PM me or the other mods if you have any concerns.