Discussing serious issues and wo bhi Life1 mein is indeed a difficult task, but I have to do it as the person I am going to discuss is himself a member of this forum.
So this person who is my friend is very much interested in a girl, he is quite impressed by her personality, education, looks etc etc but the problem is that he just doesn’t feel like admitting it, I mean he is too shy to admit that he likes her and she could be her very good friend and all that…maybe he doesn’t want that girl to get wrong signal?? I don’t know I discussed this issue with him many times but I am still unable to understand the problem. Since he is a very good friend of mine, infact one of my best friends so I just want all these things to be sorted out as quick as possible, as these days the only topic of discussion is this girl and I am really getting tired of it now.
Please help me by giving serious suggestions to him. This topic might not sound as serious as the real situation is but believe me I am having tough time explaining things to my friend. Your feedback will be a real help. Thanks!
Discussing serious issues and wo bhi Life1 mein is indeed a difficult task, but I have to do it as the person I am going to discuss is himself a member of this forum.
So this person who is my friend is very much interested in a girl, he is quite impressed by her personality, education, looks etc etc but the problem is that he just doesn't feel like admitting it, I mean he is too shy to admit that he likes her and she could be her very good friend and all that…maybe he doesn’t want that girl to get wrong signal?? I don’t know I discussed this issue with him many times but I am still unable to understand the problem. Since he is a very good friend of mine, infact one of my best friends so I just want all these things to be sorted out as quick as possible, as these days the only topic of discussion is this girl and I am really getting tired of it now.
Please help me by giving serious suggestions to him. This topic might not sound as serious as the real situation is but believe me I am having tough time explaining things to my friend. Your feedback will be a real help. Thanks!
can someone explain me that IF he dont want her to get a wrong signal and she could be good friend....then whats the problem??
Well I suggest you get to know the girl or ask the girl if she has the hots for the guy. If she does, set them up. If she doesn't lhave the hots for him, I suggest you give him a shot.
As a man it is my solemn duty to make sure the other guy gets hooked up. A duty I take very very seriously.
And her level of french is very important. After all french is the language of love.
Aisha you got the hots for a guy or a guy got the hots for you? I must know for the sake of drama and enjoying my popcorn.
if He is that impressed n still doesn’t wanna giv her a wrong signal ask him to gift her a RAKHI.
i hope u know wat a rakhis for.
If He refuses to do that n still wanna sing his love song as soon as he starts leave the premises n run as fast as u can…
this is a very serious reply so don’t take it as a joke
Thanks for your suggestion but let me repeat, the guy is my friend not the girl…why would she tell me anything? and no I cant do all this drama of being anonymous and finding the hidden feelings..its not a bollywood movie.
The problem is I am unable to understand my friend, what does he want? how to find out?
Someone is in problem and people are enjoying popcorn
Then why do you listen to him if you are unwilling to help? Seems you aren't doing your proper job as a friend.
You ask him. Sheesh what else? You tell him straight up he is acting like a child and that if he likes this girl as much as you say he does, he should tell her or just leave it. Lamenting away hidden in the dark is no way to treat a lady. You harass her via PM. Now that is the way. :D
As for popcorn, I am willing to share....if you provide the right incentive....
If she can't speak french then the relationship is doomed from the start.
Then why do you listen to him if you are unwilling to help? Seems you aren't doing your proper job as a friend.
You ask him. Sheesh what else? You tell him straight up he is acting like a child and that if he likes this girl as much as you say he does, he should tell her or just leave it. Lamenting away hidden in the dark is no way to treat a lady. You harass her via PM. Now that is the way. :D
As for popcorn, I am willing to share....if you provide the right incentive....
If she can't speak french then the relationship is doomed from the start.
Alright alright I like this reply...I hope he reads it and acts accordingly...thats what ive been telling him not to hide things and its nothing wrong in admitting but sighz
incentive? I dont even wanna know about right incentives...
...or may be your firend just wana make u feel jealous. :p
your friend can discuss the matter with u but he dont have the courage to talk to the actual person. (shyness to zera check ho!)
if you are a gal then u dont need to get involve (cuz she has personality, education, looks etc etc so she will hate your existence), and if not then propose her yourself. :p
