Re: Suggestions please =)
^ Listen to the smart lady please!!!
Okay, technically there’s nothing wrong with gift giving.
Except in this situation, its a bit presumptuous. At least in my opinion it is. Have you a ring on your finger? Or a wedding date? Or even a baat pakki? Until there is a formal commitment between families…gift giving puts an uncomfortable amount of pressure on the receiver as they really don’t know where they stand.
Are they a potential rishta still? Does this mean things are solid now and you’re thinking so as well?
D6C suggested a small toy or something little for the baby but beyond that is just not appropriate at this point.
Bear in mind, this doesn’t mean you can’t give presents in the future when there IS a ring or a formal commitment. But this early is not a good idea.